Dear Abby: MIL’s a menace to family’s happiness

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

Dear Abby: MIL’s a menace to family’s happiness Dear Abby: I married a wonderful, thoughtful man 30 years ago. His family accepted me and were very kind, with the exception of his mother. She hardly looked at or talked to me. If she did talk to me, it was about her being too young to be a grandmother (I had three children from a previous marriage; he had never married or had children). She also would regale me with stories about how my husband got in trouble during his youth (he was a good boy, in my opinion).So now we come to the present. Our two children and I have been gossiped about, treated like servants when we are with her and demeaned when spoken to, and my mother-in-law constantly tries to talk alone with my husband. I’m sure she’s trying to split us apart. Her abuse has separated me from his extended family.Recently, I told my husband I am no longer visiting her because it has caused too much anxiety and depression. He is not supporting me out of fear of what she might do to him. Please advise, Abby. —...

How San Diegans can claim remaining pandemic-era food benefits

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

How San Diegans can claim remaining pandemic-era food benefits SAN DIEGO -- Families in California have one month left to claim pandemic-era food benefits, and the San Diego Hunger Coalition (SDHC) is urging households that qualify to take advantage of it before its gone.Low-income households are able to request benefits from the Pandemic Electronic Benefits Transfer (P-EBT) program, a federal initiative set up to provide money for groceries while schools and childcare facilities were closed, through Aug. 1.Benefits are issued on an EBT card to the families of children who were eligible to replace the free or reduced-price meals served at childcare or schools. Families that qualify for the benefits can receive up to $1,192 per student on the card to use at grocery stores, farmers markets or online retailers.Two rounds of the benefits were issued during the pandemic. The second of the two rounds, P-EBT 2.0, were issued from October 2020 to August 2021. According to SDHC, all cards should have been received by December 2021. However, the advocacy...

Here’s why there is still so much lead pipe in Chicago

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

Here’s why there is still so much lead pipe in Chicago Even though lead in drinking water damages children’s development, the Environmental Protection Agency has forced very few cities to replace their lead pipes. Consider Chicago, with more water pipes made out of lead than any U.S. city, some 400,000. About 7% of homes that requested sampling last year exceeded federal limits, and in at least 73 homes, it was twice that much, according to an AP analysis of more than 3,500 samples collected using a method that’s more sensitive than the federal government’s.Yet that many homes was never enough to trigger the mandate to remove pipes. That’s because EPA standards only say most homes – not all – can’t have dangerous amounts of lead.Since Chicago was never forced to remove its lead pipe, it left most of it in the ground, relying on water treatment instead to lower the lead levels. State and local officials say they had limited funds that needed to be used elsewhere. They also say local rules made removal work more difficul...

Takeaways from AP’s investigation of a Texas sheriff’s history of alleged corruption and dysfunction

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

Takeaways from AP’s investigation of a Texas sheriff’s history of alleged corruption and dysfunction COLDSPRING, Texas (AP) — Sheriff Greg Capers was the classic picture of a Texas lawman as he announced the capture of a suspected mass killer: white cowboy hat on his head, gold star pinned to his chest, white cross on his belt and a large pistol emblazoned with his name on his hip.Capers addressed television cameras in May at the end the search for Francisco Oropeza, who had evaded hundreds of officers for four days after allegedly killing five neighbors when they complained his late-night shooting was keeping their baby awake. But an Associated Press investigation found the sheriff’s turn in the national spotlight belied years of complaints about corruption and dysfunction that were previously unknown outside the piney woods of San Jacinto County. Capers did not directly respond to requests for comment, but his second-in-command dismissed the accusations as “straight-up lies.”Here are the key takeaways from the AP investigation:UNDERSTATED RESPONSE TIMEDuring the search for Oropez...

Deputies accused a Texas sheriff of corruption and dysfunction. Then came the mass shooting

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

Deputies accused a Texas sheriff of corruption and dysfunction. Then came the mass shooting COLDSPRING, Texas (AP) — Sheriff Greg Capers was the classic picture of a Texas lawman as he announced the capture of a suspected mass killer: white cowboy hat on his head, gold star pinned to his chest, white cross on his belt and a large pistol emblazoned with his name on his hip.For four days, Francisco Oropeza had evaded hundreds of officers after allegedly killing five neighbors when they complained that his late-night shooting was keeping their baby awake. The sheriff said his deputies arrived in 11 minutes, but Oropeza was gone. With the search over, Capers had a message for the victims’ families.“They can rest easy now,” Capers told a row of television cameras in May. The burly sheriff later personally hauled the “coward” across a town square into court.But an Associated Press investigation led the sheriff’s office to disclose that deputies took nearly four times as long as Capers initially said to arrive at the mass shooting. The AP also found Capers’ turn in the nati...

Some cities are digging up water mains and leaving lead pipe in the ground

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

Some cities are digging up water mains and leaving lead pipe in the ground PROVIDENCE, R.I. (AP) — Prandy Tavarez and his wife were expecting a baby when they bought a four-bedroom house in a well-kept neighborhood of century-old homes here. They got to work making it theirs, ripping off wallpaper, upgrading the electrical and replacing windows coated in paint that contained lead, a potent neurotoxin that can damage brain development in children.That wasn’t the only lead. The pipe carrying water to their home was made of it, too. Providence’s tap water had had dangerous lead levels for years. So it wasn’t surprising in 2008 when a road crew came through and dug up the street to take out the pipe. Then they left part of it in the ground.“They put on a Band-Aid,” Tavarez said.Around the country, utilities have been leaving lead pipe in the ground even when it is easiest to remove during water main work. Worse, they have been removing sections, disturbing the pipe and leaving the rest, which can spike lead levels, causing harm that will last a lifetime,...

Cooler lakeside Sunday—but warmth to reach lakefront Mon-Tue. in Chicago; Excessive Heat threatens Southwestern U.S.

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

Cooler lakeside Sunday—but warmth to reach lakefront Mon-Tue. in Chicago; Excessive Heat threatens Southwestern U.S. A Beautiful Day For The Beach SundayWhile it will be cooler by the lake on Sunday, the heat on Monday and Tuesday reaches up to the lakefrontWe've seen a big turnaround in rainfall already this month.  Through the first 8 days of July O'Hare (Chicago's official reporting station) has received more rain than in May (0.71") and June (2.36") combined.  Those two months were a combined 5.52" drier than average.  The flooding rains from last weekend and even another significant round early in the workweek, still only knocked central Cook County from a severe drought to a moderate drought.  Much of the area is still in a severe drought and the entire region could still use more rainfall.  We likely won't have any measurable rain again until Tuesday and even then, a lot of the region will remain dry. Wednesday brings the best chance for rain and over the next 7 days, through next Saturday, the computer forecast models predict an average of 1.46" of rain in Chicago.An Excessive Heat Warning...

Riverside doctor arrested again for alleged sexual assault of patients

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

Riverside doctor arrested again for alleged sexual assault of patients A Riverside doctor was arrested Friday for the second time on allegations he sexually assaulted multiple patients.The suspect was identified as Dr. Sam Sannoufi from Newport Beach, according to the Riverside Police Department.Sannoufi owns the Timeless Skincare Laser Clinic and Primary Care Family Practice on the 6900 block of Brockton Avenue in Riverside.Sannoufi was first arrested on June 27 after a female victim claimed she was sexually assaulted during a consultation exam with him.At the time, Sannoufi was arrested and booked on sexual assault charges before being released on $1 million bail.Since then, additional victims have come forward with similar allegations of being sexually assaulted by Sannoufi. Sam Sannoufi in a booking photo from the Riverside Police Department. Ventura County drug ‘delivery driver’ arrested, has suspected ties to Mexican cartel On July 7, he was arrested for additional sexual assault crimes and booked into the Robert Presley Detention Center. He is...

Underground vault fire leads to explosion in SF's Pacific Heights

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

Underground vault fire leads to explosion in SF's Pacific Heights SAN FRANCISCO (KRON) -- Crews are responding to an underground vault fire that led to an explosion, the San Francisco Fire Department confirmed. The fire happened on the 2100 block of Pacific Avenue in the city's Pacific Heights neighborhood.A manhole cover exploded underneath a car and led to the damage of several windows in the area, according to SFFD. Citizen App video (above) shows a Tesla damaged due to the explosion.As of 9 p.m., no injuries have been reported. SFFD is asking the public to avoid the area at this time.KRON On is streaming news live now.embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }This story will be updated.

‘Stay weather aware’: DC region under Flood Watch Sunday as excessive rainfall is expected

Published Sat, 23 Nov 2024 20:16:36 GMT

‘Stay weather aware’: DC region under Flood Watch Sunday as excessive rainfall is expected Be aware! Most of the D.C. area will be under a Flood Watch and a moderate risk for excessive rainfall on Sunday. Here’s what you need you know.Flood Watch is in effect from Noon to 10 p.m. Sunday.Severe Weather Alert with potential for large hail, damaging winds and tornadoes.The last Flood Watch will be in effect starting noon Sunday and extend through 10 p.m. bringing a  much more active weather pattern through the drought-stricken capital region, said 7News meteorologist Mark Peña.“A very potent storm system will bring a line of storms through the region starting from the west around 10 a.m.-11 a.m. and progressing toward the DC Metro/I-95 corridor around 1 p.m.-3 p.m. time frame. The storms are expected to be relatively slow moving prompting the threat for flash flooding,” Peña tells WTOP.Everyone is likely to see the impacts of this storm system, he added.A widespread 1 to 2 inches of rainfall is expected across the watch area, with isolated totals in excess ...